Self-Compassion Professional Learning for Educators

Research-based training that supports educators in building resilient classrooms, strengthening regulation, and helping kids navigate big feelings.

This classroom approach is an application of Jamie Lynn Tatera’s research-based Mindfulness and Self-Compassion for Children and Caregivers (MSC-CC) program, which is an adaptation of the Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) program developed by Kristin Neff, PhD, and Christopher Germer, PhD.

Graduate-level professional development credits are available for educators through Courses4Teachers and are commonly used for license renewal and salary advancement, subject to district approval.

Teaching Is Demanding Work

When students are overwhelmed by big feelings, learning can come to a halt. Fear of failure can lead kids to shut down or refuse to try, and dysregulation and conflict can take over the room.

These moments don’t just affect students. They place enormous demands on teachers, especially when time, energy, and support are already stretched thin.

I know this firsthand. I’m an educator too, and I teach in classrooms in Milwaukee where these moments are part of the daily reality. Educators need tools that support students and sustain the adults in the room.

Self-Compassion as Professional Learning

Self-compassion is often misunderstood as something soft or permissive. In reality, decades of research show that responding to difficulty with kindness and clarity supports motivation, emotional regulation, and perseverance.

For educators, self-compassion functions as both a personal resource and a classroom practice. It helps us be steady under pressure, recover after hard moments, and create learning environments where students feel supported and encouraged to keep going.

This professional learning is designed to support both teaching and learning.

What This Looks Like in Classrooms

Kids holding workbooks

In classrooms, self-compassion shows up through simple, developmentally appropriate practices that fit naturally into the school day. These practices support learning rather than pull time away from it.

Students learn to:

  • notice what they’re feeling
  • remember they’re not alone
  • respond to mistakes with care
  • soothe themselves and try again when learning feels challenging

These practices teach both comfort and courage. They build real skills, not slogans.

Together, they form a classroom approach known as Courage and Kindness for Kids, offering a playful, research-based way for elementary educators to support self-compassion in everyday classroom life. Kids genuinely enjoy these practices, and when students are engaged, teaching feels lighter.

How Self-Compassion Takes Root in Classrooms

Effective self-compassion teaching happens through educators, not materials alone. It happens through four interconnected steps:

  • Educators practice self-compassion themselves, building steadiness, resilience, and presence.

  • Educators model self-compassion in real moments, showing students how to respond to mistakes and stress.

  • Educators become the external compassionate voice, using shared language and habits that students begin to internalize.

  • Students practice self-compassion skills, making formal teaching meaningful and effective.

Educators do not need to have self-compassion “figured out” before teaching it. Many learn and practice alongside their students, and teaching often deepens the educator’s own practice over time.

Two Learning Pathways

This professional learning supports educators through two complementary pathways: personal self-compassion practice and classroom application. Educators may begin with either and often find that each deepens the other.

Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC for adults)

Primary focus
Educator well-being, resilience, and presence.

Who it’s for
Any adult (commonly chosen by educators across grade levels).

What you get
Personal Mindful Self-Compassion practices and guided group learning.

CE credits
Eligible for 1–3 graduate-level professional development credits (where applicable).

The goal
Supporting educator steadiness, resilience, and presence.

Mindfulness & Self-Compassion for Kids

Primary focus
Student regulation and classroom culture.

Who it’s for
Elementary educators (elementary grades).

What you get
Playful classroom curriculum, animal characters, and practical teaching tools.

CE credits
Eligible for 1–3 graduate-level professional development credits (where applicable).

The goal
Helping kids handle big feelings, stay engaged, and learn together.

Self-Compassion for Educators

Photo of the author: Jamie-Lynn Tatera

I first encountered self-compassion as a parent, and it quickly became clear how transformative it could be for children. But I was an educator long before I was a parent. And I realized that if we want self-compassion to reach more kids, educators are essential.

I know what it’s like to be in a classroom with students who are struggling to self-regulate while carrying too much and having too little time. When we’re depleted, it’s incredibly hard to show up with patience, steadiness, and presence for our students.

Self-compassion isn’t just for kids. It’s a practice that helps us as educators navigate the daily stresses of teaching with more ease and less burnout. Personally, I can’t imagine being an educator without this resource.

I’ve created self-compassion trainings for educators, alongside classroom-focused learning that helps you teach these same skills to your students. This reflects an intergenerational approach, supporting educators and children through the same core principles.

Where This Work Comes From

This curriculum is a school-based application of Mindfulness and Self-Compassion for Children and Caregivers (MSC-CC), my research-based, parent–child adaptation of the Mindful Self-Compassion program developed by Kristin Neff, PhD, and Christopher Germer, PhD.

I developed this school-based version of MSC-CC through direct work and collaboration with children inside and outside of the classroom, with kids actively shaping what felt engaging, playful, and meaningful. Over the past seven years, I have continued testing and refining these practices in Milwaukee Public Schools and in other elementary school environments. The work has been shaped by real classroom conditions, including limited time, large class sizes, and varied student needs.

I did not design this for ideal conditions. I designed it for the classrooms we actually have.

Professional Learning & Continuing Education

Educators are stretched. Time, energy, and financial constraints are real, and professional learning needs to be both meaningful and practical.

That’s why I’ve partnered with Courses4Teachers, so educators who take self-compassion trainings with me can apply for graduate-level professional development credits commonly used for license renewal and salary advancement. These options may be pursued individually or through school-, district-, or organization-supported professional development.

I offer professional learning that supports both pathways on this page: courses focused on growing your own self-compassion practice, and classroom training that offers playful, classroom-tested practices you can use with students right away.

Continuing Education for K–12 Educators

Graduate-level professional development credits are available through Courses4Teachers

  • Credits are commonly used for educator license renewal and salary advancement.
  • Eligibility and acceptance are determined by district guidelines.
  • Courses4Teachers uses educator-friendly course titles so transcripts align with common district professional development categories.
  • Specific CE eligibility and credit details are listed on individual course pages.
  • Questions about continuing education or professional learning options? You’re welcome to contact Jamie Lynn Tatera.

Where to Begin

There’s no single right way to start. Some educators begin by focusing on their own self-compassion. Others start with classroom practices.

For Your Own Well-Being

Courses focused on growing your own self-compassion practice, supporting steadiness, resilience, and presence in the classroom.

For Your Classroom

Playful, classroom-ready practices you can use with students right away.

Start wherever makes sense for where you are right now.

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